Monday, July 27, 2015

4th of July Weekend: Part 1


Last week my friend Peter from grad school came into town to kick off our epic 4th of July weekend extravaganza.  He has been such a solid and good friend since 317 - first semester studio (aka boot camp) with Catalina.

Disclaimer: I am fully aware that my maturity level dropped a good 15 years as soon as Peter's plane landed and has only begun to creep back up to my normal immaturity level.

So when I picked him up from the airport on Wednesday night I was first taken back by how mature he looked, I think the beard makes him look about 18 now instead of 14.

After a huge and proper bear hug we ate at Pi on the Loop, where I proceeded to make an ass of myself by playfully harassing the waiter whose, as we later discovered, was his first day on the job.  So even though he was terrible, a generous tip was left.  It was so nice to talk and laugh about everything under the moon.  We went back to Hotel Cassie where, as always, a mint was found on his pillow and we talked more.

The next morning I took him to my office and showed him around.  As expected from socially inept people none of my co-workers engaged him in any sort of conversation.  My boss barely slowed down enough to shake his hand as he was walking by.  I then dropped Peter off at the metro stop and worked for 1/2 a day while he went up to the WashU campus and relived some of the glory days.  Afterwards we proceeded to Pappy's where we indulged our glutenous side by eating some of the best BBQ St. Louis has to offer.  We were both pretty tired so we decided to go back to Hotel Cassie and relax.  We watched a couple episodes of Peter's favorite show, Friends, and both ended up falling asleep at some point.  Post nap we freshened up for the evening and went to our old pastime Mr. Wizards where our super dorky architecture side manifested as we drew diagrams of apartments that we lived in as well as a breakdown of our school time.

We then met up with Jen & Ryan and Stitleman for drinks at Sasha's in Demun, or two diet cokes for me.  Jen and Ryan are good people, I really like them.  Jen gave me a pep talk and encouraged me to get out of my current job, it was something that I really needed to hear.  Stitleman just kills me.  He's of course wonderful and nice to me even when I tell him he looks like a leprechaun.  Unfortunately the lovely Allison had to work late but this gave me the opportunity to pry out his plans to propose.  Which has subsequently happened.

Sasha's in Demun 
Keeping it classy at Mr. Wizards
Our conversational diagrams

The next morning we got ready and went to Winslow's for breakfast.  I only went there once or twice when I was in school, mainly because all of the "cool kids" would go there so that automatically meant that I would avoid it.  It's the same reason I hated Boston for years, no logical reason, it was just the fact that nearly every single person from Boston would say that it's the greatest city in the world.  (Sidenote: I actually went there...I don't hate it anymore.)

Winslow's 
 We then headed up to Chicago to begin the epic 4th of July Weekend.

-End Part 1-


Monday, July 13, 2015

Gross, Gross, and More Gross

I try not to write blogs when I am upset or frustrated but judging from the last blog and now this one I'm not doing so well at that resolve.

As previously mentioned through the encouragement of others I joined match.com.  And through the encouragement of others I have stayed on (my bishop even thought it was a great idea) despite my hesitation.  Trying to keep an open mind and optimistic attitude about things I have interacted with a few people.  The most recent one reminded me of a couple of my college friends; musician (guitar, bass, drums), likes music, kind of geeky, has a sense of humor, and seemed to have a strong spiritual side although not currently part of an organized religion.  So I'm going to ignore the poor grammar and a few of the super geeky pictures and thought to myself "okay this might be an okay pool to stick my toe in."  So I trepidatiously gave him my number.
First night I get a little cute and complimentary message.  So far so good.
Later that night he sends me a selfie from the shoulders up.  Kind of strange...I ignore it and ask him about his work and music.
The next night I'm sitting enjoying some conversation with some friends when I receive another message from the guy.  This time I get a full body shot of him in gym shorts...with a hard-on.  Yes, he was pitching a tent.  WHAT THE HELL?!?!  I was so disturbed and sat there for a good 10 minutes completely and utterly shocked.
Where in the deep dark crevices of your grey matter did you think that sending me that picture was a good idea?  Were you dropped on your head a lot as a child?  Did your apartment have lead based paint?  Seriously I don't know what half self-respecting woman would see that photograph and think "Hey, that's hot" or "You look as though you are somebody that would treat me with respect."
No.
Hells no.

Yes, I may say a lot of shocking things but 99% of it is for my entertainment and the shock value that I receive.  When it comes down to it I am a very reserved and moral person.  That kind of disgusting behavior doesn't fly with me.

So whatever, this dating crap is horrible.  I hate the game.  I hate hate hate it.
I'm officially taking a break.